50-year-old woman welcomes first child after years of infirtility

‘She’s our miracle baby’: 50-year-old woman welcomes her first child with husband, 61, via egg donationafter battling infertility for 13 年份

  • Susie, 50, and Tony Troxler, 61, of High Point, North Carolina had been trying to conceive since getting married 13 几年前
  • They tried naturally because ‘when we grew up, nobody even talked about or discussed IVF
  • At a checkup with a new OBGYN three years ago, she was asked if she had any other questions and brought up her desire to conceive
  • She and Tony started IVF and then turned to egg donation when they had no viable embryos
  • They welcomed Lily Antonia Troxler via a scheduled C-section on September 29
  • They describe being new parents as ‘surrealand insist: ‘We knew no matter how it was going to happen, that it was going to happen
  • A 50-year-old woman became a first-time mom — and her 61-year-old husband a full-time dad — after she gave birth to a baby girl via C-section earlier this fall.

    Susie and Tony Troxler of High Point, 北卡罗来纳 had been trying to conceive since getting married 13 几年前, but had no luck for over a decade — but after turning to egg donation and IVF, Susie delivered Lily Antonia Troxler on September 29.

    ‘It was so surreal,’ Susie, a psychologist, said in a press release from Cone Health. ‘Everything had come together for that moment to happen. It’s hard to wrap our heads around — we’re no longer just husband and wife, we’re “妈妈” 和 “daddy.”‘

    Susie, 50, and Tony Troxler, 61, of High Point, North Carolina welcomed Lily Antonia Troxler via a scheduled C-section on September 29

    Susie, 50, and Tony Troxler, 61, of High Point, North Carolina welcomed Lily Antonia Troxler via a scheduled C-section on September 29

    They had been trying to conceive since getting married 13 几年前. They tried naturally because 'when we grew up, nobody even talked about or discussed IVF'

    They had been trying to conceive since getting married 13 几年前. They tried naturally because ‘when we grew up, nobody even talked about or discussed IVF

    Susie was in her late 30s and Tony in his late 40s when they got married, and they quickly tried to have a baby, thinking it would be no problem.

    ‘When we got married, we just assumed we’d get pregnant, and then it didn’t happen,’ 她告诉 早安美国.

    ‘But we’re both very old-school, and when we grew up, nobody even talked about or discussed IVF [in-vitro fertilization]. It wasn’t even a thing.

    She never even discussed it with a doctor until three years ago, when she went to a new OBGYN for a checkup — and was asked a question she’d neve been asked before.

    ‘Near the end of my appointment, 博士. Harraway-Smith asked, “Is there anything else?”‘ 她记得. ‘If she hadn’t asked that question, then this baby probably wouldn’t be here.

    At a checkup with a new OBGYN three years ago, she was asked if she had any other questions and brought up her desire to conceive

    At a checkup with a new OBGYN three years ago, she was asked if she had any other questions and brought up her desire to conceive

    She and Tony started IVF and then turned to egg donation when they had no viable embryos

    She and Tony started IVF and then turned to egg donation when they had no viable embryos

    ‘I was disappointed to hear her say that no one had ever queried them or given them their options for fertility,’ 博士. Carolyn Harraway-Smith said.

    博士. Harraway-Smith knew that because of Susie’s age, they had a ‘short windowto make a pregnancy happen, so she sent her to an reproductive endocrinologist.

    That doctor diagnosed with fibroids, muscular tumors on the wall of her uterus that are usually benign. Susie had surgery to remove them, but was still told she wouldn’t be able to get pregnant naturally.

    So they tried IVF, but were unable to produce a viable embryo. 下一个, they turned to egg donation, with the first embryo transfer in late 2019 — but unfortunately, it did not take.

    The pandemic put their plans on hold, but in February of this year, they transferred their last viable embryo — and it worked.

    They describe being new parents as 'surreal' and insist: 'We knew no matter how it was going to happen, that it was going to happen'

    They describe being new parents as ‘surrealand insist: ‘We knew no matter how it was going to happen, that it was going to happen

    'Kids come when they're supposed to come, regardless of the age of the parents. We look at it as this is exactly how it was meant to be. She's our miracle baby,' Susie said

    ‘Kids come when they’re supposed to come, regardless of the age of the parents. We look at it as this is exactly how it was meant to be. She’s our miracle baby,’ Susie said

    Susie had a ‘pretty uneventful’ 怀孕, ending in a scheduled C-section on September 29, during which she hummed a gospel song.

    ‘We knew eventually we would have kids,’ Tony said in the press release. ‘We wouldn’t give up. We had that faith. We dreamed of her. We knew no matter how it was going to happen, that it was going to happen.

    ‘Even now I find myself just staring at her,’ he added to GMA. ‘Before she was born, she had me wrapped around her pinky finger.

    They call Lily their ‘little warrior princessand says she is already smiling.

    ‘It’s really, 真, really surreal,’ said Susie. ‘I’d been unmarried, I’d been a wife and now the idea of being a mommy, it still hasn’t sunk in I don’t think.

    ‘I’m of the belief that kids come when they’re supposed to come, regardless of the age of the parents. We look at it as this is exactly how it was meant to be. She’s our miracle baby,’ 她补充说.

    Is it ever too late to conceive? How pregnancy and fertility changes with age

    Women are born with a fixed number of eggs, with the number increasing as a woman ages.

    根据 American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, women are most fertile from their late teens to late 20s. Healthy people in their 20s and 30s have a one in four chance of getting pregnant during a single menstrual cycle.

    Fertility starts to decline for women by age 30, and the decline becomes more rapid in a woman’s mid-30s. Medically speaking, 35 and up is considered advanced maternal age, and women are at higher risk for miscarriage and stillbirth.

    在 40, women have just a one in ten chance of getting pregnant in a single menstrual cycle. Getting pregnant naturally from age 45 onward is unlikely for most women.

    Age can impact fertility in several ways. In addition to having fewer eggs, women are also at increased risk for issues like uterine fibroids and endometriosis as they get older.

    As women age, pregnancy also poses risks of more complications for both mother and child.

    Women have a higher risk of suffering pregnancy complications like preeclampsia. There is also an increased risk of birth defects due to missing, 损坏的, or extra chromosomes.

    While the risk of a baby with Down syndrome is just 1 在 1,480 在年龄 20 和 1 在 940 在年龄 30, it goes ip to 1 在 85 for women at age 50 和 1 在 35 for women at age 45.

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