Il padre afghano cerca di vendere sua figlia di 10 anni per soldi

Afghan father tries to sell his 10-year-old daughter for food money as the country’s economy continues to collapse under Taliban rule

  • Qandi Gul’s father sold her into arranged marriage to get money to buy food
  • Mother Aziz appealed to tribal elders who secured a divorce for the 10-year-old
  • Her husband fled fearing reprisals, and she is now on her own caring for five kids
  • She has also been ordered to repay $1,000 dowry but has no means of paying
  • An Afghan father has tried to sell his daughter into an arranged marriage in return for money to feed the rest of his family as the country’s economy continues to worsen.

    Qandi Gul, 10, was betrothed to marry a 21-year-old man in an arranged marriage that would have taken place when she was around 15 in return for around $1,000.

    But mother Aziz, who was sold into marriage herself aged 15, intervened and secured a divorce for her daughter from tribal elders.

    But she has now been ordered to repay the $1,000 and cannot because her husband has fled, fearing reprisals. She is now faced with the prospect of feeding five children with no source of income.

    Qandi Gul, 10 (giusto, holding her six-month-old brother), was sold into an arranged marriage by her father in return for $1,000 to feed his family

    Qandi Gul, 10 (giusto, holding her six-month-old brother), was sold into an arranged marriage by her father in return for $1,000 to feed his family

    Arranging marriages for very young girls is common in the region.

    The groom’s family pays money to seal the deal, and the child usually stays with her parents until she is at least around 15.

    Yet with many unable to afford even basic food, some say they’d allow prospective grooms to take very young girls or are even trying to sell their sons.

    Gul, unusually in this deeply patriarchal, male-dominated society, is resisting.

    Married off herself at 15, she says she would kill herself if her daughter is taken away.

    When her husband told her he had sold Qandi, ‘my heart stopped beating,’ lei disse.

    ‘I wished I could have died at that time, but maybe God didn’t want me to die,’ Gul said, with Qandi by her side peering shyly from beneath her sky-blue headscarf.

    ‘Each time I remember that nightI die and come back to life.

    Her husband told her he sold one to save the others, saying they all would have died otherwise.

    ‘Dying was much better than what you have done,’ she said she told him.

    Gul rallied her brother and village elders and with their help secured a ‘divorcefor Qandi, on condition she repays the 100,000 afghanis (di $1,000) her husband received. It’s money she doesn’t have.

    Her husband fled, possibly fearing Gul might denounce him to authorities. The Taliban government recently banned forced marriages.

    Gul says she isn’t sure how long she can fend off the family of the prospective groom, a man of around 21.

    Aziz Gul (seconda a destra), Quandi's mother, managed to get the girl a divorce but now has now way to repay the $1,000 dowry she was given

    Aziz Gul (seconda a destra), Quandi’s mother, managed to get the girl a divorce but now has now way to repay the $1,000 dowry she was given

    ‘I am just so desperate. If I can’t provide money to pay these people and can’t keep my daughter by my side, I have said that I will kill myself,’ lei disse.

    ‘But then I think about the other children. What will happen to them? Who will feed them?’ Her eldest is 12, her youngesther sixthjust two months.

    Afghanistan’s aid-dependent economy was already teetering when the Taliban seized power in mid-August amid a chaotic withdrawal of U.S. and NATO troops.

    The international community froze Afghanistan’s assets abroad and halted funding, unwilling to work with a Taliban government given its reputation for brutality during its previous rule 20 anni fa.

    The consequences have been devastating for a country battered by war, drought and the coronavirus pandemic. State employees haven’t been paid in months.

    Malnutrition stalks the most vulnerable, and aid groups say more than half the population faces acute food shortages.

    ‘Day by day, the situation is deteriorating in this country, and especially children are suffering,’ said Asuntha Charles, national director of the World Vision aid organization in Afghanistan, which runs a health clinic for displaced people near the western city of Herat.

    ‘Today I have been heartbroken to see that the families are willing to sell their children to feed other family members.

    In another part of the camp, father-of-four Hamid Abdullah was also selling his young daughters into arranged marriages, desperate for money to treat his chronically ill wife, pregnant with their fifth child.

    He can’t repay money he borrowed to fund his wife’s treatments, Egli ha detto. So three years ago, he received a down-payment for his eldest daughter Hoshran, adesso 7, in an arranged marriage to a now 18-year-old.

    The family who bought Hoshran are waiting until she is older before settling the full amount and taking her.

    Afghanistan has all-but collapsed under Taliban rule as aid agencies withdraw and world governments refuse to cooperate with the Islamists (immagine del file)

    Afghanistan has all-but collapsed under Taliban rule as aid agencies withdraw and world governments refuse to cooperate with the Islamists (immagine del file)

    But Abdullah needs money now, so he is trying to arrange a marriage for his second daughter, 6-year-old Nazia, per circa 20,000-30,000 afghanis ($200-$300).

    ‘We don’t have food to eat,’ and he can’t pay his wife’s doctor, Egli ha detto.

    Sua moglie, Bibi Jan, said they had no other option but it was a difficult decision. ‘When we made the decision, it was like someone had taken a body part from me.

    In neighboring Badghis province, another displaced family is considering selling their son, 8-year-old Salahuddin.

    Sua madre, Guldasta, said that after days with nothing to eat, she told her husband to take Salahuddin to the bazaar and sell him to bring food for the others.

    ‘I don’t want to sell my son, but I have to,’ the 35-year-old said. ‘No mother can do this to her child, but when you have no other choice, you have to make a decision against your will.

    Salahuddin blinked and looked on silently, his lip quivering slightly.

    Suo padre, Shakir, blind in one eye and with kidney problems, said the children had been crying for days from hunger. Twice he decided to take Salahuddin to the bazaar, and twice he faltered. ‘But now I think I have no other choice.

    Buying boys is believed to be less common than girls, and when it does take place, it appears to be cases families without sons buying infants. In her despair, Guldasta thought perhaps such a family might want an 8-year-old.

    The desperation of millions is clear as more and more people face hunger, with some 3.2 million children under 5 years old facing acute malnutrition, according to the U.N.

    Charles, World Vision’s national director for Afghanistan, said humanitarian aid funds are desperately needed.

    ‘I’m happy to see the pledges are made,’ lei disse. But the pledges ‘shouldn’t stay as promises, they have to be seen as reality on the ground.

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