British people’s ‘obsession with politeness’ and fear of saying what they want acts as a barrier to them getting rich, US millionaire entrepreneur claims
British people’s ‘obsession with politeness’ keeps many of them poor and acts as a barrier to them becoming rich, an outspoken US multi-millionaire has claimed.
Entrepreneur Derek Moneyberg, 42, who grew up in poverty on a rough estate near Chicago but now lives in Nevada, claims that Americans’ ‘brashness and bravado’ are among the reasons why the country is the world’s largest economy.
‘Brits are too scared to say what they want,’ he told FEMAIL. ‘Getting rich requires pro-activity and blunt honesty.
Entrepreneur Derek Moneyberg, 42, who grew up in poverty on a rough estate near Chicago but now lives in Nevada, claims that Americans’ ‘brashness and bravado’ are among the reasons why the country is the world’s largest economy
‘Too many British people put being polite before making money and still expect to be rich. They’ve only got themselves to blame.
‘You’re obsessed with being polite in the same way lots of Americans love productivity that leads to making money.
‘You hold politeness dear and above all else. What is weird to an American is how much you cherish it.
‘I’m not a self-conscious person – I wouldn’t have lived the life I had if I was. But that doesn’t mean I go out there to annoy people or be rude.
‘I certainly don’t. But if someone thinks I’m rude, or swear too much or say the wrong thing then that’s on them – I’m not losing any sleep.
The wealth and business coach, who is worth over $35million, insisted that this ‘lack of front’ is the reason the UK is lagging behind richer nations like Germany and Japan
‘That’s the key difference between the Brits and people in the US. So many of you Brits think your world will implode if everyone doesn’t like you and think you’re an upstanding person.
‘It’s nonsense and you’re just wasting your time. You could be as well respected as Mother Teresa, or as well-intentioned as Donald Trump, and some bum will still hate you. If you want to get rich I suggest you ditch the etiquette and learn something worthwhile.’
Derek – who had a few good role models during his difficult upbringing which helped him on his journey to the top – has a track record for making outlandish statements. He previously argued that poverty is a ‘lifestyle choice’.
‘Every day we have choices,’ hy het gesê. ‘In everything we do, we could choose to work harder, work smarter and earn better outcomes.
Derek – who had a few good role models during his difficult upbringing which helped him on his journey to the top – has a track record for making outlandish statements. He previously argued that poverty is a ‘lifestyle choice’
‘Most choose to do just enough to scrape by, and never fully take advantage of the opportunities they have right in front of them.
‘When someone fails to do everything they can to create success, they are not only failing their future selves, but also failing to do good for those dumb enough to stand by them. It’s disastrous to have these people in your family.
‘Most people will choose to make excuses, instead of actually doing what’s necessary to accomplish significant goals.
‘Winners always find a way and losers always find an excuse. I believe that over 90 per cent of poor people could be wealthy if they weren’t so lazy. They’ve only got themselves to blame.
‘That might upset some people but then true statements often upset weak people.’
Derek was a millionaire by the age of 29 and even had a vasectomy at 26 so that he could channel his focus on his clients
He is testament to this ethos and dragged himself out of poverty after being born into a broken home in a neighbourhood filled with drugs and violence to a ‘crazy’ mother and father who was jailed during his formative years.
Despite these setbacks, he was determined to be successful and channelled all his efforts into education – both formally and informally.
To make extra cash before getting his first proper job at 16, he knocked on doors to pick up odd jobs like raking leaves and cutting grass.
This saw him excel academically whilst the entrepreneurial acumen he learned through setting up multiple businesses made him a millionaire by the age of 29. He even had a vasectomy at 26 so that he could channel his focus on his clients.
Hy het gesê: ‘Charlie Munger – Warren Buffett’s business partner – says the best way to get what you want in life is to deserve it.
‘Why would the world be so crazy to go around highly rewarding a bunch of undeserving people? Money is a lifestyle choice. Most simply choose not to earn it.’