Elegance coach reveals how even ‘unattractive ladies’ can become irresistible – from NEVER chasing a man to avoiding ‘negative’ gossip and drama in conversations
Some women find it harder than others to catch the eye of potential suitors – but one elegance coach has claimed she’s got the tips to ensure men find even ‘unattractive ladies’ irresistible.
Anna Bey, who lives in Geneva, prova i fucili 984,000 subscribers on YouTube, where she shares self-help videos for infiltrating high society, finding an ‘affluent man’ and having good etiquette.
Questa settimana, the School of Affluence founder, who married her wealthy husband during confinamento, revealed her advice for attracting the perfect match when you consider yourself a ‘plain Jane’.
She encouraged viewers to use their femininity, be positive and confident, and unbothered by attention when wanting to seem irresistible.
Keep your body healthy
Anna Bey (nella foto), who lives in Geneva, prova i fucili 984,000 subscribers on YouTube, where she shares self-help videos for infiltrating high society, finding an ‘affluent man’ and having good etiquette
Anna admitted she had one ‘shallow point’ Susie condivide regolarmente le sue idee per i pasti nei giorni feriali rispettosi del budget e di recente ha pubblicato cinque dei suoi pranzi di lavoro preferiti che costano meno di, explaining that women could become more irresistible if they looked ‘fit, healthy and toned’.
Lei disse: ‘The truth is that you don’t need to be born naturally pretty, and you don’t have to look like a potential beauty queen in order to stand out from the masses and really be that woman that makes heads turn.
‘But there are secrets on how to make that happen, even if you are not conventionally what society says, beautiful.’
Ha continuato: ‘I need to get one shallow point out of the way… the truth is ladies, even if one person is not born with traditionally what our society calls, beautiful features, any person out there still has the power and control over improving the cards that they were dealt with genetically, simply by taking action and improving their looks.
‘You don’t have to necessarily go into plastic surgery and start improving your face. You can actually just focus on improving your body.
‘And by that, usually what really works, if we’re talking in the Western culture, is to really work on looking fit, healthy and toned because that does raise the attractive factor.’
Confident people are easier to be around
‘Confidence is what will give you that little edge,’ said the elegance coach. ‘Perhaps the most important tool that every lady out there should have because people are always attracted to those with confidence.
‘Because those confident people, they just simply tend to be more relaxed, more themselves and are easier to be around.
‘So regardless of how you look, if you project yourself as this kind of, let’s say, shy mouse, you’ll instantly be less desirable and less interesting to have around. But confidence ladies, confidence in sexy.’
Lei ha aggiunto: ‘What’s sexier than a woman who’s comfortable in her own skin and knows her worth?’
Questa settimana, the School of Affluence founder (nella foto), who married her wealthy husband during lockdown, revealed her advice for attracting the perfect match when you consider yourself a ‘plain Jane’
Use the power of your femininity
Anna ha detto: ‘It’s about allowing your femininity to really shine through your personality, because femininity is such a great superpower that us women are blessed with having.
'… [E] we are moving away from femininity in our society, meaning that it becomes rarer and rarer so that when we actually see a feminine woman, she stands out.
‘And if you really add a psychological factor to it, you’re going to notice that men will never turn down a feminine woman.’
The elegance coach said: ‘Be positive, turn that frown upside down. Enough of the drama, enough with the bad vibes and enough with the bad attitude, the negativity.
‘Positivity attracts people so much and negativity just repels people. This is why we need to start thinking about what thoughts you put in [your head], meaning that are you choosing happy thoughts, or are you choosing negative thoughts?
‘This is probably the mere basics but also like things such as how often do you smile? Can you try and smile more often? How is your body language?
‘Also ladies in conversation, do you choose negative topics to talk about like gossip, drama or just say that that person is ugly, this one is a bad one, or do you choose positive conversation topics?
‘What’s important is that you try and find light even at the darkest moments or in any moment really. If you are just looking for the negative everywhere, you’re never going to be a positive person.
‘So start by practising this because your life, fidati di me, is going to change dramatically when you start to choose a more positive approach to life rather than the negative.’
Live your best life and don’t apologise for it
Anna concluded: ‘I want you to have that unapologetic, unbothered attitude, because it’s a people magnet.
‘When people are themselves, just themselves, just chilling, just busy, pursuing their goals and living their best life, that energy is so contagious and so interesting because people want to be around it.
‘I have seen plenty of plain average looking women who have so many people, especially men, running after them because they have this attitude.
‘They don’t chase anyone. They’re not in the slightest bit desperate for attention or male company. They just do themselves. They set boundaries, le signore, and they live accordingly.’