Lesbian woman, 27, reveals doctors have REFUSED her a hysterectomy to solve her debilitating period pain ‘in case she later stopped being gay’ and ‘met a man who wanted children’
A woman has revealed how she was advised by doctors against having a hysterectomy ‘in case she later stopped being a lesbian and wanted to have children’.
Rachel Champ, 27, a sales agent from County Meath, began suffering from severe menstrual pains at the age of 10 and has tried multiple birth-control methods, medication and surgery over the years to manage the problem.
However she decided to seek further help after the pain became daily and chronic, attending a doctors appointment at a Dublin hospital.
Praat met die Die tye, Rachel said she was stunned to be denied a hysterectomy and told by a consultant: ‘I don’t want you to have any regrets in case your life circumstances change, [byvoorbeeld] your sexual orientation changes and you leave your partner and you meet someone else and he wants to have children.’
Rachel Champ, 27, a sales agent from County Meath, has revealed how she was advised by doctors against having a hysterectomy ‘in case she later stopped being a lesbian and wanted to have children’ (op die foto links, with her wife Karen)
Rachel, who married wife Karen in July, visited a doctor at a Dublin hospital last month to discuss a potential treatment for her excruciating periods
Praat met Buzzfeed, Rachel explained her periods have always been incredibly painful.
Sy het gese: ‘I still vividly remember getting my first period and curling into a ball on my bed in the fetal position and crying because of the pain.
‘This became a new routine for me every month.’
However she revealed that doctors ‘wrote it off’ as ‘bad periods’ and she was placed on series of different medication in an effort to manage the pain.
Rachel explained that her periods had always been excruciating and that the pain had begun when she was just 10-years-old
It wasn’t until she had her first smear test when she was 25 that a female doctor told her it ‘wasn’t normal’ to be in so much pain each month.
WHAT IS ENDOMETRIOSIS?
Endometriosis occurs when cells in the lining of the womb are found elsewhere in the body.
Each month, these cells react in the same way as those in the womb; building up, breaking down and bleeding. Tog, the blood has no way to escape the body.
Symptoms include pain, heavy periods and fatigue, as well as a higher risk of infertility, and bowel and bladder problems.
Its cause is unknown but may be genetic, related to problems with the immune system or exposure to chemicals.
Treatment focuses on pain relief and improving quality of life, which may include surgery or hormone treatment.
Bron: Endometriosis UK
Rachel was referred to a gynecologist for the first time, and after more tests it was confirmed that she had multiple cysts on both ovaries, including one which appeared to be an endometriosis.
Plaas op Twitter sy het geskryf: ‘I’ve had two surgeries (1 with ovarian drilling), tried three different contraceptive pills, the mirena coil, and have tried every combination of painkillers. Nothing has helped.’
By this stage, she was now suffering daily and chronic pain, which she said was leaving her unable to walk and attend work events.
Vroeër vandeesmaand, she attended an appointment at a Dublin hospital with Karen to discuss her options.
After initially speaking with a female doctor, the consultant was brought into the room.
Rachel explained she was aware of the risks of a hysterectomy but was interested in pursuing the surgery because the pain had become so difficult to manage.
Meanwhile she also revealed she and Karen were pursuing adoption as a potential avenue to have children.
She claimed he told her he wouldn’t perform the hysterectomy because her judgement was currently ‘clouded by the pain.’
Sy het bygevoeg: ‘It’s important to mention that he did not give me any medical reason why I could not have a hysterectomy.
‘He told me it isn’t an option because I’m too young, the pain I’m in is clouding my judgement and my life circumstances may change. No medical reason why it’s not an option.’
She said she was left shocked, toevoeging: ‘My sexual orientation doesn’t change. That doesn’t happen — I’m 27 and I’m married.’
During the appointment, Rachel also revealed she and Karen were pursuing adoption as a potential avenue to have children
In plaas daarvan, she was advised to try new birth control for six months.
Rachel now has an appointment to see a specialist in London later this month and has complained to the hospital about what happened.
She remains in debilitating pain, saying she is often unable to walk or ‘stand up straight’ because of the severity.
After she shared her story on Twitter last month, her posts quickly went viral, with hundreds of women quickly responding.
After she shared her story on Twitter last month, her posts quickly went viral, with hundreds of women quickly responding
Een het gesê: ‘Yep I was told this to. I already had 3 kids and I was single and they said what if you meet someone who wants kids?
‘I responded we can adopt but why does an imaginary man have more say over my body than I do?’
'N Ander het geskryf: ‘I was refused one because I might want kids. I started having investigations because I wasn’t getting pregnant – untreated Endometriosis left me infertile, which they found because of those investigations.
‘So they won’t do it in case I want to get pregnant but I cant get pregnant.’
After the post went viral on Twitter, many women were quick to share their own stories of speaking to doctors about their period pain
WHAT IS A HYSTERECTOMY?
A hysterectomy is a surgical procedure to remove a woman’s uterus.
There are three kinds:
- PARTIAL HYSTERECTOMY: Removes two-thirds of the uterus.
- TOTAL HYSTERECTOMY: Removes uterus and cervix.
- RADICAL HYSTERECTOMY: Removes uterus, cervix and vagina.
The operation is most commonly performed on women between the ages of 40 en 49.
Meer as 20 million American women have had a hysterectomy, according to data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
As women approach menopause, the odds that they will develop one of several serious uterine health conditions increases. Doctors may recommend a hysterectomy as a treatment for:
- uterine (endometrial) Kanker
- chronic uterine pain or bleeding
- collapsed uterus
In sommige gevalle, doctors may suggest a hysterectomy as a preventative measure if a woman has significant warning or early signs of developing one or more of these conditions.
When necessary, surgeons may also remove the ovaries and fallopian tubes, if these have also been damaged or are at serious risk of damage.
The removal of reproductive organs sends a woman’s body into menopause, no matter how old she is.
This comes with unpleasant side effects like hot flashes, and many women have to start hormone therapy, taking estrogen to balance out their own hormones.