Vrou, 27, is pregnant with her best friend's UNCLE, 43

Vrou, 27, wat swanger is met haar vriendin se OOM, 43, says it was ‘love at first sight’ – despite initially meeting when she was aged just 12

  • Jami Bouwer, van Suid-Afrika, is expecting her first child with Nolte Lourens
  • The 27-year-old met her partner, 43, when visiting his niece at the age of 12
  • Jami said it was ‘love at first sightand she always had a crush on the ‘cute uncle
  • A woman who fell pregnant with her best friend’s uncle, wie is 16 jaar haar senior, says it was ‘love at first sight– despite the pair meeting when she was aged just 12.

    Jami Bouwer, 27, from Mossel Bay, Suid-Afrika, met her future partner Nolte Lourens, 43, when visiting her pal Nikita back in 2007 when she was a pre-teen.

    She became infatuated with the older man but it wasn’t until December 2020 that their paths crossed once more and the couple enjoyed a vineyard datearranged by Nikita.

    Die paar, who have officially been together for seven months, have been inseparable ever since and are now expecting their first child together in September.

    Jami Bouwer, 27, from Mossel Bay, Suid-Afrika, met her future partner Nolte Lourens (saam afgebeeld), 43, when visiting her pal Nikita back in 2007 when she was a pre-teen

    Jami Bouwer, 27, from Mossel Bay, Suid-Afrika, met her future partner Nolte Lourens (saam afgebeeld), 43, when visiting her pal Nikita back in 2007 when she was a pre-teen

    She became infatuated with the older man (saam afgebeeld) but it wasn't until December 2020 that their paths crossed once more and the couple enjoyed a vineyard date - arranged by Nikita

    Jami Bouwer and Nolte Lourens, saam afgebeeld

    She became infatuated with the older man (saam afgebeeld) but it wasn’t until December 2020 that their paths crossed once more and the couple enjoyed a vineyard datearranged by Nikita

    Die paar (op die foto), who have officially been together for seven months, have been inseparable ever since and are now expecting their first child together in September

    Die paar (op die foto), who have officially been together for seven months, have been inseparable ever since and are now expecting their first child together in September

    ‘I laid eyes on him for the very first time in 2007, Ek was maar net 12 years old and he was about 27 jaar oud,’ Jami, who is currently unemployed, gesê.

    ‘Sounds crazy, obviously no moves were made, but that is the first time I met him. I became friends with his niece around that time and since then I’ve always had a crush on her cute uncle.

    'Vir my, it definitely was love at first sight, since the first day I laid eyes on him I just knew he was going to be the one.

    ‘I made the first move back in 2017, just before I had left South Africa to go au pair in America for two years, by telling him that one day I am going to marry him.

    'Ek was 23 at the time and he thought it was a joke and laughed, and that was that. Little did he know how serious I was and I just knew that one day it was going to happen. He was also in a relationship at that time.

    'I laid eyes on him for the very first time in 2007, Ek was maar net 12 years old and he was about 27 jaar oud,' Jami (op die foto saam met haar maat), who is currently unemployed, gesê

    ‘I laid eyes on him for the very first time in 2007, Ek was maar net 12 years old and he was about 27 jaar oud,’ Jami (op die foto saam met haar maat), who is currently unemployed, gesê

    'Sounds crazy, obviously no moves were made, but that is the first time I met him. I became friends with his niece around that time and since then I've always had a crush on her cute uncle', said Jami (op die foto saam met haar maat)

    ‘Sounds crazy, obviously no moves were made, but that is the first time I met him. I became friends with his niece around that time and since then I’ve always had a crush on her cute uncle’, said Jami (op die foto saam met haar maat)

    'Vir my, it definitely was love at first sight, since the first day I laid eyes on him I just knew he was going to be the one,' the mother-to-be (op die foto saam met haar maat) bygevoeg

    Jami and Nolte pictured together

    'Vir my, it definitely was love at first sight, since the first day I laid eyes on him I just knew he was going to be the one,’ the mother-to-be (op die foto saam met haar maat) bygevoeg

    Jami returned to her hometown in 2019, after her stint abroad, at which time Nolte, who works as a beekeeper, had been checking out her social media pages – but their age gap meant that he was too apprehensive to get in contact at first.

    'Aan die begin van 2020 he went to America for farming, he finally got the guts to send me a message and ask when I will be returning to the US, as he was there,’ onthul sy.

    ‘After casually chatting to him on and off for a couple of months via WhatsApp while he was overseas, he finally returned home from the US.

    ‘He came by the bar where I worked the same day he landed and walked in behind the bar and gave me a hug.

    Jami (pictured with Nolte) erken: 'I made the first move back in 2017, just before I had left South Africa to go au pair in America for two years, by telling him that one day I am going to marry him'

    Jami (pictured with Nolte) erken: ‘I made the first move back in 2017, just before I had left South Africa to go au pair in America for two years, by telling him that one day I am going to marry him

    Jami returned to her hometown in 2019, after her stint abroad, at which time Nolte, who works as a beekeeper, had been checking out her social media pages

    But their age gap meant that he was too apprehensive to get in contact at first

    Jami returned to her hometown in 2019, after her stint abroad, at which time Nolte, who works as a beekeeper, had been checking out her social media pages – but their age gap meant that he was too apprehensive to get in contact at first

    'At the beginning of 2020 he went to America for farming, he finally got the guts to send me a message and ask when I will be returning to the US, as he was there,' Jami revealed. Op die foto, the couple together

    'Aan die begin van 2020 he went to America for farming, he finally got the guts to send me a message and ask when I will be returning to the US, as he was there,’ Jami revealed. Op die foto, the couple together

    ‘The very next day we went on a sort of a date arranged by his niece to a wine farm just out of town for a wine tasting and a light meal. We got together and basically just started dating right away.

    ‘After our first date, that night he had leaned in to kiss me and that’s how it all started. We have officially been together for seven months now.

    ‘We have a connection like no other. We understand each other, we are honest with each other and the sex is amazing.

    The couple has been open about their relationship from the start, despite Nolte’s parents initially being flabbergasted that he was dating their granddaughter’s best friend.

    The couple has been open about their relationship from the start

    This is despite Nolte's parents initially being flabbergasted that he was dating their granddaughter's best friend

    Die paartjie (op die foto) has been open about their relationship from the start, despite Nolte’s parents initially being flabbergasted that he was dating their granddaughter’s best friend

    Jami (op die foto saam met haar maat) bygevoeg: 'Everyone always knew I had a huge crush on Nolte, but no one thought it would ever become anything serious. Toe dit gebeur het, some people were surprised and others not, but we have been open about it since day one'

    Jami (op die foto saam met haar maat) bygevoeg: ‘Everyone always knew I had a huge crush on Nolte, but no one thought it would ever become anything serious. Toe dit gebeur het, some people were surprised and others not, but we have been open about it since day one

    'My parents were a bit shocked because they only found out on Facebook once we made it public,' admitted Jami, pictured with Nolte

    Sy het bygevoeg: 'They accepted it pretty easy though as they have known him for years and loved him as a person'

    ‘My parents were a bit shocked because they only found out on Facebook once we made it public,’ admitted Jami, pictured with Nolte

    Jami added: ‘Everyone always knew I had a huge crush on Nolte, but no one thought it would ever become anything serious. Toe dit gebeur het, some people were surprised and others not, but we have been open about it since day one.

    ‘My parents were a bit shocked because they only found out on Facebook once we made it public – they accepted it pretty easy though as they have known him for years and loved him as a person.

    ‘Nolte’s parents also accepted it quite easy too. Nikita was the most excited. She was rooting for us since the beginning. She also is the one that pushed and helped us to get together.

    ‘Fortunately for us, we have never received any negative comments. We are lucky that way.

    Nolte is currently working on a farm in North Dakota, VSA, but will be back with his partner (saam afgebeeld) for the birth of their child in September

    Nolte is currently working on a farm in North Dakota, VSA, but will be back with his partner (saam afgebeeld) for the birth of their child in September

    Jami (op die foto) was previously in a 'secret' relationship with a man 30 jaar haar senior, who sadly passed away

    Jami showcasing her baby bump

    Jami (op die foto) was previously in a ‘secretrelationship with a man 30 jaar haar senior, who sadly passed away

    Jami was previously in a ‘secretrelationship with a man 30 jaar haar senior, who sadly passed away.

    Meanwhile Nolte was married for five years while in his twenties, before getting divorced six years ago.

    Jami revealed exactly what makes the age gap relationship work so well.

    ‘Nolte knows what he wants and is done with themessing aroundstage in his life,’ verduidelik sy. ‘He is more committed when it comes to love and starting a family.

    ‘We both want the same thing when it comes to starting a family. We are so excited to be having a baby together and to start our life together as a little family of three.

    Meanwhile Nolte was married for five years while in his twenties, before getting divorced six years ago. Jami, pictured in her baby's nursery

    Meanwhile Nolte was married for five years while in his twenties, before getting divorced six years ago. Jami, pictured in her baby’s nursery

    Jami (op die foto) revealed exactly what makes the age gap relationship work so well. 'Nolte knows what he wants and is done with the "messing around" stage in his life,' het sy verduidelik. 'He is more committed when it comes to love and starting a family'

    Jami (op die foto) revealed exactly what makes the age gap relationship work so well. ‘Nolte knows what he wants and is done with themessing aroundstage in his life,’ verduidelik sy. ‘He is more committed when it comes to love and starting a family

    ‘We love each other unconditionally and appreciate each other in every way possible. We each have our past stories and we are able to open up and accept each other as we are.

    ‘I think that’s what makes our relationship so special – we are so different yet so alike.

    Nolte is currently working on a farm in North Dakota, VSA, but will be back with his partner for the birth of their child in September.

    ‘Jami is young, energetic, enthusiastic, lustful, and naughty,’ Nolte said. ‘Sure there are women out there that meet those same criteria at my age, but they are very scarce and most likely have children of their own – something I can’t see myself getting involved with.

    The loved-up couple had some advice for those who also found themselves in an age gap relationship.

    ‘Don’t let anyone tell you what’s right or what’s wrong when it comes to love and age,’ said Jami. ‘Never focus on age, it’s literally just a number. If it feels right, then it is right. Focus on yourself – it’s your life and you have to live it.

    ‘Someone will always have something to say, but only you know your story, so who are they to judge? Love who you want to love and you will live a happy life.

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